Q. My wife is a hoarder. She always has been but as we get older it gets worse.
She has 10 times the amount she needs of everything - just in case. Please help.
Have you taken the opportunity to CALMLY ask your wife why she feels this behavior is necessary?
Perhaps a reassurance from you can help de-escalate her fears, and in turn make a more rational decision when it comes to making household purchases.
If this is unsuccessful, it may signal an evaluation by a mental health professional.