Q. I think my husband is a hypochondriac - if he hears symptoms - he gets
them. He never used to be this way. Any suggestions?
A. As we age, long-time friends in our age group get sick. Some die. For many of us, this magnifies the reality of death.
This reality often brings a "heightened" awareness and sensitivity to our bodily functions, which (if perceived as abnormal) can cause fear.
I would encourage you to not "feed in" to your husband's health concerns. It will only exacerbate his anxiety.
It might be helpful for him to schedule a full physical examination, and present a list of his concerns to his physician.
Upon the conclusion of the exam, if this "concern' persists, you can now say, "remember what the doctor told you'.
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